Soledad's Local Dating Service

I am a personable individual with strong opinions & very affable too. I don't bite unless ask. Sincere & honest, appearance is sometimes important but I don't judge a book by its cover. I like some music {{classic rock n roll, some classical, older country)) & attracted to beauty. I have a Traumatic Brain Injury resulting from a '76 motorcycle accident. I can walk short distances but use an electric wheelchair to ambulate long distances. I love Classic Rock-n-Roll, some older Country & riding my 3-wheel bicycle around King City. I watch sports on television, like Comedy Central for a lighter side of world events, comedies as movies, adventures are very good too! I like to people watch & be a good person. I also helped establish an Independent Living Centeer run by & for persons with disabilities. I quit smoking on 11-9-08 & yes it is hard still.

Wow...yeah...erm...i'm a girl...i like music, and movies...and interesting people. i have a sister on here somewhere...hello sister!

O.k. i'm going to try this again...i am a incredibly interested in politics, but fortunately, i am a liberal. this means i tend to ask questions like: "how can something like Jesus Camp be allowed to exsist?! have we all lost our goddamned minds?!" or "gee, how long d'you think it'll be before the american public boots this incompetent *expletive hiss spit foam* administration to the curb?"

i love passion for life, a good debate, singing really really loud and bouncing around in my car...i have a new car, new to me, and i love it with all my little car-loving heart. *sigh*

I love Lady Gaga so much! I also love Katy Perry. If you are either Lady Gaga or Katy Perry, please message me. You may also message me if you're Kelly Clarkson. You may also message me if you're a ghost whose head is attached by a red ribbon and if I untie the ribbon, your head falls off. Other famous crushes I have include Bastet, the feline deity, the entirety of the Oakland Raiders cheerleading squad, and of course... the Holy Mother, Virgin Mary full of grace. The Lord is with her, it has been said.

Let's see...
Grew up on a mini-horse farm in Pennsylvania.
Moved to California when I was 11.
Rode horses in middle & high school.
Was involved in a lot of theatre in high school.
Graduated from college after 3 years with AA in GE.
Graduated from another college after 22 month program with 3 AS in EATM.
I love horses, squirrels, and cats... But not only that.
I love my family... Extended family included.
I love funny movies and childish humor.
I love Italian and Chinese food.
I love at lot of things...
I also dislike a lot of things...
Just ask me if you wanna know!

Hey yall my names Alana. Im currently in the process of getting my A.S. in Environmental Studies,not sure what im gonna do next. I go to school up north and love it although the Valley will always be my home. Im more of a country girl but i do have a girly side. I love animals, I was in 4-H for 10 years and showed sheep and horses.
I love the outdoors. I love laughing. I love my friends, I love just sitting around talking about all our random memories for hours. I love the summer and being able to go swimming everyday. I like snow for a while but it gets old fast. I love wearing tshirts, jeans and flip flops. I love cuddling. I love going on random adventures. Im not really into the party scene i did that my freshman yr but now im mor focused on school. I love just drinking with a few good friends around a huge bonfire. I just started fishing and really enjoy it. Im pretty open to new things.

Hey! I'm Bryonna Most people call me Bry pronouced BreeKandi, Jayda,or of course Bryjo.. And I have no idea what to say...
But um... I'm suposedly super funny so theres that and I do Graphic Designing and I take Pictures... and I Write... A Lot... Everyone tends to come to me for advice so don't be shy... I'm pretty friendly... a little too outgoing for some but I'm fun so... the end. Oh and I'm Pretty Random to. Consider Yourself Warned (;

Hi my name is Elizabeth but you can call me Liz. i am i really nice person so dont be scared to talk to me :). i am 19 years old and am 5'4" 5'5" on a good day, i have red hair, and blue eyes. i have 11 piercings and 4 tattoos, i love music more than anything in the world, music is the only way that i can feel better and sing my heart out, i am a really good singer and my mom always cries when i sing for her :) i love being with my friends and just being myself, my friends are my life and i would do anything for them! im really into the online crazes like lolcats, 4chan, picnicface on youtube, ect... i love doing make-up, i collect lighters, i like when things are mini >.< i draw...(poorly) but i try, i love sushi! i love kids, i love animals, i love camping, and hiking,i love going to amusement parks and i love spending the night with my best friend Sunny staying up till 1am when we have to get up at 4am to go to the flea market, i would give anything to be able to fly and breath under water... if you wanna know anything about me just ask :)

*This is a test i took and it freaked me out how well it knew me...*

"I am unique"

Romantics have sensitive feelings and are warm and perceptive.

How to Get Along with Me

* Give me plenty of compliments. They mean a lot to me.
* Be a supportive friend or partner. Help me to learn to love and value myself.
* Respect me for my special gifts of intuition and vision.
* Though I don't always want to be cheered up when I'm feeling melancholy, I sometimes like to have someone lighten me up a little.
* Don't tell me I'm too sensitive or that I'm overreacting!

What I Like About Being like i am.

* my ability to find meaning in life and to experience feeling at a deep level
* my ability to establish warm connections with people
* admiring what is noble, truthful, and beautiful in life
* my creativity, intuition, and sense of humor
* being unique and being seen as unique by others
* having aesthetic sensibilities
* being able to easily pick up the feelings of people around me

What's Hard About Being me.

* experiencing dark moods of emptiness and despair
* feelings of self-hatred and shame; believing I don't deserve to be loved
* feeling guilty when I disappoint people
* feeling hurt or attacked when someone misunderstands me
* expecting too much from myself and life
* fearing being abandoned
* obsessing over resentments
* longing for what I don't have

as Children people like me often

* have active imaginations: play creatively alone or organize playmates in original games
* are very sensitive
* feel that they don't fit in
* believe they are missing something that other people have
* attach themselves to idealized teachers, heroes, artists, etc.
* become antiauthoritarian or rebellious when criticized or not understood
* feel lonely or abandoned (perhaps as a result of a death or their parents' divorce)

as a Parent

* help their children become who they really are
* support their children's creativity and originality
* are good at helping their children get in touch with their feelings
* are sometimes overly critical or overly protective
* are usually very good with children if not too self-absorbed

***Update: Sometime in March I will be moving to Las Vegas and separating from my husband***
I'm a complicated, yet mostly enjoyable borderline schizophrenic with bipolar II and all sorts of life experience. I have always loved alternative music and classic rock. I tend to read things like new age and social commentary. I also plan to get a degree in photography, and become a medical transcriptionist. I'm a furry and I went to further confusion 07 and 08. That crowd knows me as Kisa. I am into BDSM, I'm more of a star trek person than a star wars person, and I'm a PC.

I am interested in so many things, but for some reason I can't seem to get really good at just one thing. I have tried computer programming and I find it boring. I have a natural talent for photography, so that's what I'm trying to go with now. I officially hate college, but I'm going so I don't have to pay back that loan yet. It is easier to learn on my own terms.

I am unhappily married and that one is a completely open relationship, we're basically room mates for the time being.

I am not a fan of talking on the phone unless it's absolutely necessary. I think I have an odd/deep voice over the phone.

Yes I like pina coladas
And getting caught in the rain
I'm not much into health food
I am into champagne
I've got to meet you by tomorrow noon
And cut through all this red tape
At a bar called O'Malleys
Where we'll plan our escape

My name is Marci. I am a single mom of 3 children. I work fulltime, and absolutely love my job. I have to admit I am a little nervous about puttting myself out there for people to view, but what the heck, I am ready to try new things.

Looking for real word friends I enjoy World of war craft ( dragon maw) under my alt deadnsmelly and first person shooters laid back not looking for anything real serious just people with common interest at the least :)

I'm just a grad school dropout who recently moved back to the area to try and figure out what the next chapter of my life will be. Since a lot of my friends don't live in the area anymore I thought I'd give this site a try and maybe get to meet some cool new people.

I like to read and hang with friends.
Gettin to know people.
I am 18
i gotta myspace just look up german_lupo@yahoo.com
most of my friends call me a dude so, im your everyday butch i guess.
but i can never stand people who treat their partners like shit.
or anyone who hits a girl.
even though ima girl i could never hit one.
also ya wanna know about me just ask lol
my interests are: chillin with friends, reading, listening to music, video games and, meeting people
im gonna be movin to soledad soon gettin some type of dog, i dont know yet. but hopefully when i move out, i could get one dog of my dreams, and it is a blue nose pitbull. i wanna see if i can actually train one that aint gonna have people thinkin oh god that dog is gonna slaughter me.
naw way man, that is just plain stupid.

I am 34 years old and i am a caring, thoughtful, fun and loving person who likes to spend time with my family/friends. I like the outdoors and willing to try something new. Easy to get along with like to express my feelings and speak my mind. I am a person you can trust and depend on i try to keep all my promises when promised.

I like to read a lot, watch the news, read the newspaper on a Sunday morning. My intellectual tastes run to from A to Z with stops for biography, cartography, geology and most other 'ologies' (not including phrenology).

My name is Anna and im up for pretty much anything. I like my men nice and sweet and honest because trust is everything in a relationship. I think because i have children, I have a young attitude. I like adventures and quiet walks with my dogs. My favorite dog is a basset hound or I like beagles too. I love to read, I read every night before I go to bed

I like to think that I'm a funny guy. I'm kinda out of shape :/ but working on it. I work for starbucks (YAY!) and I like to think that I can make the best coffee ever. Huge movie buff (favorite is fight club)

I'm a bit of a smartass. I am extremely sarcastic and actually get along with women really well (I guess that means I have no reason to be here ;P).I'm laid back kicked back and always back!

I'm looking for a girl who knows what to do and isn't crazy haha. Just a strong, smart, independent woman who is down to hang out or maybe have a serious relationship(anything else just message me ;)

I'm also an Introvert. :/

I'm a single DAD with 1 beautiful daughter. I pretty laid back, independent, stable, fun, caring, positive and a lot more....kinda guy! I share my daughter 50/50 a week at a time. I'm here to make a connection. I believe in chemistry so if you like what you see and you'd like to learn more feel free to drop me a line.

Im shy , perty chill i love music who doesnt right, im funny well sometimes, i was born mexicali now here salinas, i love hiking day/night , back packing i Love photography, do random stuff, i used to love playing shows when i was in a band but i left my band not long ago. i. i belive in peace and equality love mother nature, like the outdoors,going shows. ummmmmm yeah...

I like to Dance, go to movies, comedy clubs, long walks, wine tasting football games and just have fun! I am a single mother of one son who is my life but as he turned 18 doesnt think he needs me as much! Which is a good sign that raised him well...i think! Now i'm ready to start my life again. I am looking for a good honest man who wants to have fun and see where it goes.

Hey! my name is christina and if you wanna chat, message me! :) don't be scared lol i don't bite ;)

I am a pretty open-minded person. I am willing to always try new things. I am a very motivated person. I like to live in the moment and deal with things as they come. I love music and going to concerts. I really like tea and cant get enough of it. I like to drive my jeep and go four wheeling. Not many things are better than getting your adrenaline pumping. I am not religious but like to consider myself spiritual. I do things whole-heartedly and try to put my all in it. I love talking to old people. I am new to this whole dating site thing so yeah....talk to me hehe

Heya, Robert here.

KK, dunno what I'm doing with my life... but I do know I wanna live. I was supposed to move to Ventura this fall.. but changed my plans... Was postponed a year... but I think I changed my mind.... I think I'm going to travel next year... yep...

Need to register at Hartnell next semester... mainly for insurance... >_> and also when I figure out what I want to do... I'll hopefully have my GEd outta the way...

For fun... always wanting to do shit... but usually can't figure out what to do... me and my buddies usually hang out and play rockband...'

in my defense and for the record... I only feel like I'd be lying to choose 'never' for smoking and drugs.... if it was 'no' I'd choose that...

smoked Salvia 7 times... first 3 times were pretty great... had some interesting.... visions.... last 4 were pretty darn depressing... I'd be removed from the universe... and I'd see the universe and what not as I knew it in front of me... and it'd end ... without me... so yeah stopped that...

And being the curious guy I am, I tried weed once... it was pretty great for 5 minutes... then I was stuck for like 2-3 hours in some kind of confusing mental hell(I kept thinking things... and my thoughts would change fromt hing to thing and I couldnt concentrate) anyway hated that feeling and yeah I don't really 'do' drugs... I've tried a couple and... found that yeah... don't really care for them (Though I would recommend trying salvia at least once)

as for smoking... I smoke electronic cigarettes... so no 2nd hand smoke, 1000's of toxic chems, or smell... and yeah basically it's just for looks.... and smoke rings(more like vapor rings) the ones I ordered have no nicotine in them...

I'm a very independent person who strongly guards her alone time. That being said, I love going to the movies, out for coffee, the bookstore, Comic Con, and shopping for things that can be turned into costumes. I'm looking to get back into playing tennis (after a lapse of.... wow. A bajillion years) and maybe rollerblading since this town hasn't seen fit to put in an ice rink.

First of I'd like to say I'm not really good at talking about myself on these things. So, if you would like to get to know me please feel free to im me or message me. I really quite at first..but when you get to know me I do talk. I'm really down to earth. I like to hang out and do things, but I can also just sit back and hang out at home too.

I enjoy learning to new things. I pretty much go with the flow.

I'm creative person I like to make things or designs for the web.

I like snowmobiling, I like all activities really. I like to travel I've been to Canada, Wyoming , Nevada, Mexico, Arizona, Idaho, Washington, Utah, Oregon and Colorado. As you can see I do like to travel. I would one day like to go to Europe.

I enjoy dancing whether it be live music, DJ, or turning my ipod up loud. I'm most comfortable in the kitchen whipping something up for my friends and family to enjoy.

I am a very carefree person I love to laugh and have fun but I also know how to be serious. I like to keep myself in good shape but I also love to eat good food. My favorite types of movies are comedies. I love rock music. I like to occasionally drink but I hate the whole club scene. I would much rather go to a small bar. I love my family and I love God. If you would like to get to know me better let me know.

My Dad was in the Navy, so I've lived all over... I was born in Texas, lived in Hawaii, New York state, Tennesse, Switzerland, Germany, Philadelphia and California.

I have three children -- my oldest is in his 30s, and the youngest is fifteen and still living with me. I also have two dogs and a pet chicken.

I like to travel, read, crochet and explore new things...

I live in Salinas for the moment. I'm looking for folks to play/run around/laze about with. I want to spend as much time at the beach and in the woods as possible, then cozy up inside as the wind gets wintery. I need to find more queers in my area! I like to nerd out and talk about the universe, witches, and other woo woo shit like that. I am a cat lady. I want to meet open characters who like to go exploring...

Just working on finding myself and finding the right balance of fun, work, school, family, and all in between. And I am doing a pretty good job so far. =)
I work at Jamba Juice and go to Hartnell.
I love to work out and being active is a must!

I am part Choctaw Indian, Have lived in California all of my life. I am interested in:Horror, Sci Fi, Fantasy, Action and Thrillers, anime, crafting, and meeting nice GUYS Please feel free to write me any time i'm online!I hope to hear from you!! BTW Halloween is one of my fav holidays, next is Christmas!!!!!
Looking for a nice guy to love and be loved in return, BUT I do believe in friends first. Just to know if we are compatible.
*note: just because I fav you, doesn't mean I'm in love with you. Just that I find you interesting. Like to get to know you. I'm sorry to a couple guys on here, I tend to get close, but I guess too close for you. "Not the Way"....Just wanted to be friends. Didn't want you to think otherwise. I hope we can still be friends???
The artist conjures up the images that become their art.

UPDATE: Just met a wonderful person on here so I'm not longer looking for anything except friends.

Hey Internets people. Basic stuff about me is that I work as a Librarian, which is good for any of you people who have a librarian fantasy. Being a guy I don't really have any hair to let down though, so it doesn't work as well. I grew up in the Central Valley but live in Salinas. I hope to move up north one day and live in the pacific northwest. I'm a big fan of rain and trees. Most of the time I'm indoors, avoiding the sun, being nerdy or watching movies that I at least think are Avant-garde. Other than that, I'm pretty mellow and easy going. I'm a humorless vegetarian. Other than that, ask and I'll let you know.

I'd like to meet someone that truly likes me for being me. The cute, sometimes quirky, bookworm.

I don't think romance should be restricted to a preconceived notions nor should you â?? Giving me wild flowers (yeah I know they're usually weeds) just because you thought I'd like them is more romantic to me than a dozen roses and I hope that youâ??d also be within the same mind frame - itâ??s the thought that countsâ?¦â?¦

When I feel comfortable with people, I do like being the center of attention, but Iâ??m more likely to be in the "spotlight" with family and friends than total strangers.

I do have a tendency to misrepresent myself with what I say from time to time, in that I mean what I say - but not quite the way that I say it. But Iâ??m a charming, if a little kooky, friend and luckily am easily forgiven for my verbal transgressions. You know itâ??s the open mouth insert foot syndrome.

Iâ??m easygoing and have been described on numerous occasions as having a â??flower childâ?? temperament (with a stubborn streak on occasion). I don't want to be the dominate personality in a relationship, but am not looking for someone whoâ??s obnoxiously overbearing nor is passive aggressive. Iâ??d like to find someone that I canâ??t walk all over but doesnâ??t expect me to be a doormat either.

I was raised in the mountains in a town called Northfork which is ½ ways between Fresno and Yosemite, so I do have an affinity for the mountains. I am a girly-tomboy - grew up riding dirtbikes and playing barbies. That mentality is still prevalent today.

I do have an obsessive interest in a â??potential partnerâ??sâ?? dental and personal hygiene. If youâ??ve got yuck mouth or you smell like hot garbage and/or an ashtray - itâ??s just not gonna work out with us.

Spend most of my free time seaching for electro music, avant garde fashion designers, and photographers. They are good source of inspiration to create my own. I am grateful to be here and hope for a better tomorrow, my favorite word is besitos (kisses).

Please read this before attempting to talk to me.

I'm looking for beautiful cougar sugar-mommas. Either that or sullen, nerdy girls who wear glasses and like cheese. Or young blonde corrigable ones.

I cook, drink, eat, watch movies, and stuffs.

Coffee.

I am looking for good people to talk to. Just moved to Salinas and am looking for some new friends....

Fuck, writing this summary makes me feel like im being interrogated.....anyway though......Waddup reader! (female reader i hope)...I'm the superduperstoner, a 27 year old guy from the northern central coast of california, in the safe and quiet east side of the crimefree city of salinas ; ) I'm a chill person thats waiting to transfer out to finish up a bachellors in biz, while working in sales in the meantime. I love sports,if it's watching playing or attending im into it. I'm pretty much into anything thats a goodtime....umm idk what else you wanna know,so ask and i might tell you.

I live in Prunedale/salinas.I love to go out and just have fun doing anything. if you dont think we cant have fun doing something i will make it fun just to make you happy or smile. I am very romantic.

I have been know to be a bit straight forward and sometimes say things that people do not want to hear, but I believe it is something that needed to be said. I tend to come on strong and people might get the wrong impression of me. I am an open minded person and tend to talk to anyone about anything. I am a nerd at heart.

Profile update...

Not much to say... I'm not sure why I haven't deleted this profile yet. I have a pretty decent job for the time being. I have an awesome gf. And I have access to just about every gaming system that is on the market. (I'm a gamer nerd). So what do I have to complain about?

Very goal oriented, I am just starting my career. I am very open to new things and I am looking for friends or something more. I like to do things in the spur of the moment. I feel like if you pass something up you can miss out on something. I like to be around people and have social interaction with those who think the same or different than I do. I am in decent shape, but I would really like to be in better condition. I mostly trust people I guess. I have had some rough relationships in the past that have made me very wary.

ok i can't even believe im on here... i guess im just bored ... so my name is Garianne and im a bad ass bitch...... im also a hair stylist and a amazing mom ... to a lil girl named Teagan .... i pretty much like to be with my baby go out about once a week and drink and dance ... i love city's and shopping and dancing.....

im here there an everywhere in my world up is down, down is up and its always entertaining my worlds full of laughs i am native american , a gamer, avid music listener i dont know wtf to say so ask me message me i will say this though i am serious about finding either love or friend ship on here hopefully one an the same but im not here to waste your time or mine im not one of these hey show me your tits guys i actually really want to know you better so if you like what you read then hit me up cause im probably the most immature mature guy you'll find meaning i may still play games but that's all i play im here for the real deal :))

This is the first thing you'll read. So. Message me :) I love making new friends...

I'm Mike. I visit family from time to time in AZ, but I live in Salinas, CA. I work & attend Hartnell College.. I love art, music, and a well written story : I'm a computer nerd, too.

I like Art, In many mediums. Computers, Friends, LOTS of Music, Traveling, Games..

My name is Stephen, and Iâ??m a biped carbon-based life form.

In my spare time I enjoy walking upright and being warm-blooded, and Iâ??m a Gemini.

I live here on planet Earth, a piece of rock orbiting a giant fireball in the middle of nowhere.

I feel I belong here.

Thereâ??s something about the atmosphere.

It suits me down to the ground.

The surface of the planet is about 70% water, which is nice because Iâ??m about 70% water myself.

I share the remaining 30% with six billion others, each of whom has a 70% water body of their own.

Each of these bodies, like the planet, is composed of tiny particles which, on close examination, appear to have no solidity, but rather are pure energy.

And since they comprise everything in our world and our universe, this means weâ??re not solid either, nor is the planet.

What more can I tell you? I like beer and spicy food, working out and Tom Petty.

And I have a formal education â?? which is good, because it means I can actually read and write. But it also means I have a great deal of what you might call "actual knowledge." However, "actual knowledge" is synonymous with bullshit.

If you pressed me, Iâ??d say the purpose of life is joy in the present moment, and anyone who tells you different is a lying conniving asshole.

:)

How do your describe yourself? I am Me. I am a person who takes his life seriously yet with a grain of salt and a pinch of humor. I Love to work, I love my friends and I truly love to work with my friends. I Love to travel, and it is always better to visit with or to friends. I moved out to California with my family Dec 08, and plan to remain when my family returns to the East Coast come spring, the Weather is to nice to just leave!

Ok so i like ever quest, world of warcraft, ask me about my level 21 dark mage, anime and my most favorite thing is a weekend of dungeons and dragons. Spending an afternoon with my cat is always fun. but what could be better than a weekend cos play.

WOW, so if you clicked on me after reading all that you must be a glutton for punishment, or like your guys nerdy. As for the real me, I'm an old school kind of guy. There isn't anything metro or sensitive about me. I'm kind of caveman like, but I always open a door for girl. I have to be the driver and pay the bill.

What else can i say? For me work comes before everything I've been with same company for almost 12 years. there are times where I have to work 7 days a week, because someone calls in sick at my mom's store. Speaking of mom, she raised me by herself for 13 years, so i'm kind of a mama'a boy. In a good way, I think?

Engineer 58 seeking a short lady 5'2" or shorter preferably not overweight and in good physical shape. I'm 5'5" and look much younger than my age. I'm in good physical shape. Will consider taller if you don't mind. Would prefer but not at all required this lady to have a degree in any of the sciences math, biology, physics, chemistry, health science, etc. and preferably at least 30 years old, with light or no makeup would be nice - a natural girl. You don't have to look like a supermodel. "Plain Jane" is okay. If you sing, you'd probably melt my heart, but this is not a requirement....just a plus if you've got the talent.

Ethnicity is not important. If it matters to you, I'm Japanese and Czech. Lady must be non-smoker, no drugs, prefer no tatoos, prefer no piercings, and at most light drinker. I'm told that I am good looking by women friends that are already married. My 3 kids are adults. I frown on prescription drugs and over the counter drugs like aspirin, tylenol, etc., and look to naturalistic and herbal approaches to ailments.

I like most types of music. Jazz Fusion is my favorite and classic hard rock Santana, Cream, CCR, Dooby Brothers, Steely Dan, etc. is a close second. I like to dance to funky music and just let it loose. Love to watch Animal Planet, TLC, History Channel, Discovery Channel, Comedy Channel, boxing, VS, baseball, football, TruTV, and I subscribe to Netflix. Like to play softball.

I'm an environmental nut who recycles and doesn't litter. I have an energetic 2 year old "baby" black lab/boxer/Austrailian shepherd mix that I take for 1 to 2 hour daily walks. I'm mostly an at home person, but I do like to go out due to "cabin fever".

Not that this is that important, but I've noticed that astrology does seem to work in mysterious ways. Personally with me being an earth sign, air signs aquarius, gemini, libra and earth signs capricorn, taurus, virgo seem to agree with me more. With water signs pisces, cancer, scorpio and fire signs aries, leo, sagittarius, coming in 3rd and 4th. There are exceptions of course because there are other indicators like rising sign and moon sign that shape a person's character. Anyway this is not that important.

If it goes to the next step, we can email each other for a while to get to know each other better. Then, we might meet at a restaurant or other neutral location for a short visit, and see if anything clicks. Afterwards, we can email each other our feelings and whether to continue the relationship.

I donâ??t know how to describe myself without sounding boring. People tend to find me more exciting once they get to know me. I will say; I think life is too short to work all the time and never play. I am not the type of person to go out to bars and pick up men or stuff like that. I like to get to know someone first, talk about nothing and laugh about it. However, Im not here looking for Mr. Rightâ?¦I am looking for friends and pen-pals. If you want to have a good conversation or have nothing better to doâ?¦then I would love to hear from you.

I am a BBW that is working on getting healthy and losing weight. I have blonde hair, blue eyes, 5'6 and a great smile! I love to laugh and be goofy. I am a non-smoker, non-drug user and on occasion I will have a drink. The qualities that I am looking for in a man, would be honesty, outgoing, has morals, loves family, and does not want more children. I am looking for dating that may lead to a long term relationship. If a casual encounter is what you are looking for, I would not be a good fit for you.

Im a slut because i have big boobs. Im fatt because i eat as much as i want and dont care what people say. Im a bitch because i get tired of letting people walk all over me. Im a liar because i wont tell you everything. Im stupid because sometimes im wrong. Im ugly because my face isnt perfect. Im a whore because i get who i want. Im annoying because im not chill enough. Im a loser because im not friends with your group. I use people because i do whats best for me. Im fake because i tryy to be nice even when i dont like someone. Im weird because im nothing like you.Im controlling because i get mad sometimes. Im clingy because i like to be around people. Im greedy because i like to be satisfied. Im conceited because im proud of who i am. Im rude because my manners arent perfect. Im unnapreciative because i dont praise you. Judge me,, i dont care i am who i am.

Grew up here (Central Coast, CA), went up to the south bay area for college, then I went and taught English in Spain for two years. Now I am back and working at a nonprofit.

I enjoy:
-gourmet treats
-vocabulary words ( in English and in Spanish!!!! Si sabes algo, dimelo!)
-frolicking with friends
-cooking for family and friends
-travelling
-perfecting my Spanish (quiero alguien que me ayude!)
-the monterey bay aquarium
-playing with baby things: kittens, puppies, children...ducklings...
-LAUGHING. RIDICULOUSLY.
-Sangria
-The Planet Earth series. Love it.

I'm def. someone you will never forget. i've been told by almost everyone that i have changed there life like no one else has. i think life is too short to be anything but happy. im not saying im the happiest person in the world believe me thats not the case, but i do try to be happy and try to find out who it is that makes me happy.and if you dont treat me good, well the truth is i probably gave you a lot more chances then you deserve.

i think i have a good sense of humor
i like to laugh and make other poeple laugh
i also like to say things for shock value
the more you react the happier it makes me
not in a mean way
im a jealous girl, not gonna lie
punched a girl in the face one time
just once i know most guys dont like when girls fight
i might look really feminine and dress pretty
but the truth is im kind of a tom boy
i like nice things and i like to look pretty
but i love skateboarding and playing baseball
i dont like video games except for the wii and boxing
ill kick your ass :